Be careful what you wish for with "4wd Auto". I have it in my Ram and yes, you can leave it engaged all winter "just in case". But what I did not know was that even when I put it in 4H lock or even 4L, it's not really locked into 4wd. The transfer case always uses the clutches and they will disengage if you turn the wheel hard right or left because they sense binding, or if they get hot. Also, they will not lock up until they sense spin so putting it into 4wd before you hit an obstacle like mud does not mean the front wheels are already engaged. The newer Rams have a better transfer case that works much better but they still use clutches. So, it depends specifically on what you need it to do.
On my 5th gen I believe the auto defaults to "fully engaged" at a stop. It disengages when there is no slip and you reach a certain speed. My theory is based on results I get when towing my RV in sand/wet grass in auto, there is never any slip whatsoever off the line, even at full turn/lock.
Auto is one of those features where it really depends on your use case. I will never take my truck off road, but having snow for 6 months of the year auto is a no brainer.
The true locking transfer case like in the Rebel is definitely stronger, but then you lose that convenience.
BTW I never leave auto on in the winter. It stays in 2wd unless I hit a rough patch and then it shifts on the fly at any speed into auto. I believe there is a MPG hit if you run around in auto.