@Fightnfire it's good trucks are overbuilt in most cases then!
It is and it's a pet peeve of mine. Every time my father in law hooks up his trailer he's a couple hundred pounds over his payload. I've tried explaining it and either he thinks I'm wrong (which is likely) or he just doesn't care. This came up recently when I tried explaining why his new loaded Laramie couldn't tow as much as his older Bighorn. He was irritated when he found out, but he's one of those guys that doesn't really want to know why.
It's hard to blame him too much though, the manufacturers play with these towing numbers (part of why I can't be a Ford fan) and throw them out and in some cases (Ram & Ford) make is really hard to figure out how much you can actually tow. Plus, the trailer dealers play right into the game with them.
When I purchased my new trailer in late 2021 the trailer dealer had to have me sign an agreement that I understood what the towing capacity of my truck was etc. The salesman worked up the sheet and had the highest tow rating GM makes in the box as what my truck could tow. I'm at 9100 because of the AT4 package. I knew I was fine with the trailer I was purchasing but many people buying a trailer don't. They would have walked out of the dealership thinking their truck could tow 12,500 or whatever the highest number was for a GMC.
Not to mention wet vs. dry weight, tongue load capacity, all the shit you have in the truck with you including your family etc. It adds up fast.
I think the same thing when I see all the overland Jeeps, Tacoma's etc. driving around every day with who knows how many hundreds of pounds of added accessories that just stay on the vehicle all the time. I had a buddy who use to take his wife and two kids overlanding all the time in his Pro Tacoma. After running some basic numbers he got his wife a 4Runner and now they go in two separate vehicles because of space, and weight. (They're in a large group so not a big deal splitting up) I'm not into overlanding much so I wonder how much all of that stuff weighs... RTT, Bumpers, winches, bed racks, traction aids, jacks, sliders, skid plates, plus all the gear and occupants. The TRD Pro has what? 1k payload? Jeeps 900-1300? His family alone is 550-600ish (guess) that leaves 400 lbs for gear and all added modifications to the truck.
Stepping off the soap box now...